About

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Mission

I practice Kinkology as an integrative discipline where psychology, somatics, sexuality, and power meet with consciousness.
My mission is to support adults in exploring kink, desire, and relational dynamics without pathology, shame, or performance-grounded in nervous-system literacy, consent, and personal agency.
I work with people who want depth over fantasy, integration over escapism, and responsibility alongside pleasure. Kink here is not an identity to perform, but a language for truth, embodiment, and self-knowledge.

Vision

I envision kink reclaimed as a field of relational intelligence: emotionally mature, somatically informed, ethically held.
A world where power exchange sharpens agency rather than replacing it, where erotic exploration strengthens the self instead of fragmenting it, and where intimacy is built through clarity, choice, and attunement.
Through Kinkology, I aim to set a new standard, where edge and care coexist, desire is met with skill, and transformation is measured not by intensity, but by integration.

Testimonials

43M sub, London

I've been in therapy and kink spaces, neither of them integrated things like this. I felt held and challenged at the same time. Queen has a groundedness that takes me deep.

32M switch, Berlin

I experienced for the first time that my kink wasn't judged or just indulged, but actually understood. I feel more regulated and more honest in my relationships than I ever have.

29F, Budapest

I reached out to the Kinkologist to find support in opening up my relationship to kink and power dynamics. The process we went through gave much more than I imagined. It opened both of us up not only to dynamics, but to more safety, intimacy, and sharing erotic space. Thank you.

A bit about my philosophy

I'm a creative systems thinker.

Beyond the topics of BDMS/Kink/sexuality, and even in those topics, "conscious relating" is at the heart of all I do. I believe everything is about relationships. Your relationship to yourself as a whole, and to specific parts of you, to the world, to people in general, to specific people, to money, to colors, to ideas, to animals, plants, living, non-living, abstract, tangible, life, death...

And I believe in holding space for all, whatever comes up, welcoming the denied-suppressed-disowned, so the authentic ways of relating can emerge from the "chaos", and as we re-integrate our parts, we can consciously choose more intentional ways of relating to anything we wish.

Also essential to my work: rewiring the (nervous) system through exercises and specific attitudes and corrective experiences, keeping the window of tolerance in mind at all times (yes, I always do some psychoeducation during sessions as needed).

Soon I will share:
My Philosophy for Charging, Healing & Development - how they form an interrelated system, spiraling upwards

Experience

2024 - ongoing ProDomme

2024 - 2025 Somatic Sexology training (certified)

2020 - 2026 (ongoing) Lifestyle Domina

2013 - 2026 (ongoing) various method-specific trainings (will list soon)

2013 - 2021 Psychology BA, then Clinical Psychology Msc